{"id":36476,"date":"2025-07-30T17:58:20","date_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:58:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/intruder-2\/"},"modified":"2025-07-30T17:58:20","modified_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:58:20","slug":"intruder-2","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/intruder-2\/","title":{"rendered":"intruder?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Dear Scared Stiff\u2014 <\/p>\n<p><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The formal name for what you are experiencing is REM Paralysis, and fortunately, it is not dangerous or even anything to be overly disturbed by. During each of our REM (dreaming) periods of sleep, the body becomes temporarily paralyzed so that we don\u2019t act out our dreams. Occasionally when we wake up after dreaming, though, our bodies don\u2019t wake up with us\u2014they \u201cstay asleep.\u201d When this happens, we give commands for movement to our bodies, but our bodies won\u2019t respond. Naturally this is disturbing and we can panic\u2014we fear we will never get our movement back. These experiences usually are ended by a bedpartner touching the body and nudging it to full wakefulness, or by a seemingly superhuman effort by the dreamer to awaken. <\/p>\n<p><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Sometimes we only partially arouse while the body stays paralysed, and we continue dreaming. This is when REM Paralysis is very confusing. For example, we can awaken and see the outlines of our room, but then we also can dream, as you did, that we see an intruder. Intruder dreams are common in conjunction wth REM Paralysis, and they are known to be exceptionally frightening. <\/p>\n<p><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The trick to getting comfortable with these experiences is to recognize that they are entirely natural. They last only a minute or two at most (most last only a few seconds), and no one has ever \u201cstayed paralysed.\u201d Try to keep yourself calm during the experience, and try also to work out a communication system with your bed partner where he\/she knows to<\/span><\/span> <span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><\/span><\/span> <span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> shake you if you are moaning\u2014(usually we can only vocalize minimally during these episodes because of the REM Paralysis). After you get <\/span><\/span> <span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><\/span><\/span> <span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">more comfortable you may try even to enjoy these periods of consciousness mixed with REM sleep\u2014known as lucid dreaming\u2014and see if you can\u2019t make a happy ending to your dream.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><br \/>Back to <a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/intruder\/\" id=\"1490\" option=\"com_content\">original question<\/a><br \/>Back to <a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/sleep-paralysis\/\" id=\"85\" option=\"com_content\">Sleep Paralysis page<\/a><\/span><br \/><\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"template":"","categories":[3226,3248],"class_list":["post-36476","articles","type-articles","status-publish","hentry","category-better-sleep-answer","category-sleep-paralysis-better-sleep-answer"],"acf":{"article_id":"1501"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles\/36476","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/articles"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36476"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36476"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}