{"id":36212,"date":"2025-07-30T17:57:57","date_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/holding-on\/"},"modified":"2025-07-30T17:57:57","modified_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:57","slug":"holding-on","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/holding-on\/","title":{"rendered":"holding on"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva;\">Hi Mandie &#8211; \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span color=\"#000000\" face=\"verdana,geneva\" style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">I can\u2019t think of a clearer dream metaphor for \u201cholding on\u201d to the \u201cthings\u201d left behind by a lover. First it was a shoe, then a stereo, and some times you waited day and night (slept on the field) in order to pick up tomorrow\u2019s leftovers. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span color=\"#000000\" face=\"verdana,geneva\" style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">Are you holding on to a relationship that is over? Or is your ex purposely leaving these reminders of himself behind &#8211; because he\u2019s afraid to let go? If you think &#8211; in your heart of hearts &#8211; that the relationship is over, then you need to leave those objects behind on the field &#8211; it\u2019s not your business anymore. If you think your ex is trying to keep you holding on &#8211; then you better think about that as well. You two are friends &#8211; but your relationship is still blurry. Are you friends or lovers? \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span color=\"#000000\" face=\"verdana,geneva\" style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">If he\u2019s not ready right now to start going out again &#8211; then I think you have to quit waiting around. As soon as you stop looking back, you will meet a great guy in your future!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: red;\">Back to the <a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/holding-on-2\/\" id=\"1310\" option=\"com_content\">original dream<\/a> <br \/>Back to <a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/teen-dream-library\/\" id=\"1381\" option=\"com_content\"><span style=\"color: purple;\">teen dream library<\/span><\/a> <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"template":"","categories":[3208,3207],"class_list":["post-36212","articles","type-articles","status-publish","hentry","category-answers","category-teen-dreams"],"acf":{"article_id":"1212"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles\/36212","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/articles"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}