{"id":36191,"date":"2025-07-30T17:57:55","date_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/losing-my-virginity\/"},"modified":"2025-07-30T17:57:55","modified_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:55","slug":"losing-my-virginity","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/losing-my-virginity\/","title":{"rendered":"losing my virginity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva;\">Hi Anonymous\u2014 \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span color=\"#000000\" face=\"verdana,geneva\" style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">This is an intense dream, and I agree it is disturbing. But before you let your imagination get too spooked (I don\u2019t think it was not a precognitive dream, or a repressed memory) it may help if we consider the context a bit. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span color=\"#000000\" face=\"verdana,geneva\" style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">Is it possible your dream represents some of your thoughts recently about friends who have lost their virginity? Sex often can be perceived as a violent act (rape) in dreams, and the indifference which your friends show to your predicament suggests that you don\u2019t feel like you\u2019re getting much support. If you\u2019ve been turned off by some of what you\u2019ve seen or heard recently (bad stories from friends about their latest sexual experiences &#8211; being used, etc.) then this may explain your own private parts being sewn together. After what you\u2019ve seen some of your friends go through, you may be deciding that you\u2019d rather give up sex\u2014than go through all that pain! \u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/span><span color=\"#000000\" face=\"verdana,geneva\" style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">There\u2019s a lot of pressure to lose your virginity in high school. If you\u2019ve been feeling some of this pressure, then remember that you\u2019re the one who has power over your own sexuality and virginity. If it isn\u2019t safe, comfortable, and meaningful\u2014then the \u201csexual blues\u201d aren\u2019t worth it!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span color=\"#000000\" face=\"verdana,geneva\" style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: red;\">Back to the <a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/losing-my-virginity-2\/\" id=\"1300\" option=\"com_content\">original dream<\/a> <br \/>Back to <a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/teen-dream-library\/\" id=\"1381\" option=\"com_content\"><span style=\"color: purple;\">teen dream library<\/span><\/a> <\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"template":"","categories":[3208,3207],"class_list":["post-36191","articles","type-articles","status-publish","hentry","category-answers","category-teen-dreams"],"acf":{"article_id":"1191"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles\/36191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/articles"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}