{"id":36092,"date":"2025-07-30T17:57:46","date_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/my-husband-sleeps-with-a-co-worker-2\/"},"modified":"2025-07-30T17:57:46","modified_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:46","slug":"my-husband-sleeps-with-a-co-worker-2","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/my-husband-sleeps-with-a-co-worker-2\/","title":{"rendered":"my husband sleeps with a co-worker"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hi Anonymous\u2014<\/p>\n

Now you know why you should never go to bed angry! Those fights before bed always give us bad dreams!<\/p>\n

Dreams of infidelity, where we \u201ccatch\u201d our lover with another person, always are disturbing. Our natural inclination, upon awakening from them, is to wonder if our dream was a sign. Is our partner looking around? Is the dream a clue that something is wrong?<\/p>\n

Dreams of infidelity\u2014clearly\u2014reflect fears that our partner would rather be with someone else. In addition to reflecting literal concerns, however, infidelity dreams also can symbolize feelings\u2014usually when we are depressed\u2014that our partners would be \u201cbetter off\u201d or \u201chappier\u201d with someone else. For example, if you were feeling bad about your fight as you drifted off to sleep, you may have wondered, and worried, why your partner would want to be with you. Are you good enough for him? Would he rather be with someone else, who didn\u2019t fight and get angry, and who was more supportive?<\/p>\n

Because you have no reason to suspect your husband, the true meaning of your dream, coming on the heels of your fight together, almost certainly is that you were feeling insecure about yourself. In the dream, his request for a divorce reflects this same fear (rejection), and your desire for him to \u201cchange his mind\u201d most likely reflects your desire to \u201cwin his approval\u201d once again. But as the dream ends, you still have not received this affirmation. Will he forgive the fight? Or will he \u201chold it against you?\u201d<\/p>\n

Your dream is a sign of momentary insecurity, but the jealous feelings it caused actually are a positive sign. They tell us that you are ready to \u201cfight\u201d to keep your partner happy and in love. (Translation? You\u2019re just as good as any other woman\u2014and probably a whole lot better!) As for your sweetheart, you can rest assured that he feels bad about the fight as well. In fact, there are three magic words that he needs to hear, as soon as possible, from the lips of the woman he married. Tell him \u201cI love you,\u201d and that no man in the world could ever take his place. He will tell you the same thing\u2014and together\u2014you can lay these insecurity dreams to rest.<\/span><\/p>\n

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