{"id":36016,"date":"2025-07-30T17:57:39","date_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/my-husbands-ex\/"},"modified":"2025-07-30T17:57:39","modified_gmt":"2025-07-30T17:57:39","slug":"my-husbands-ex","status":"publish","type":"articles","link":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/my-husbands-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"my husband&#8217;s ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">I had a dream in which my present husband and I were getting ready to get married. I was running around in my wedding dress and we were doing all sorts of pre-wedding things. During all of this, his ex-girlfriend was there. She was obviously upset about our marriage, except in the dream this &#8220;ex&#8221; was actually a mutual friend whom he had never dated &#8212; one of his friend&#8217;s girlfriends whom I have always liked. Anyhow, I guess in my dream I had an &#8220;in-your-face&#8221; attitude while we were running around. (I have no idea what we were doing, and why I was doing all of it in my dress.)<\/p>\n<p>Anyhow, she was getting more and more upset, and as the dream progressed she wound up standing on a ledge of a balcony or cliff of some sort &#8212; and then she jumped. After she jumped, I ran over and looked down at her. My feelings were of regret and fear that I would get in trouble for being mean.<\/p>\n<p>She was a mess and looked dead, but I climbed down to see better. It was very graphic &#8212; the wounds, the blood, the body movements &#8212; stuff like that. When I got all the way down, it was my brother.<\/p>\n<p>To explain my brother, quickly, he is the kindest, gentlest person I know. He is six years older than I am and was my rock throughout childhood. We are not very close any more because his wife and I don&#8217;t get along. We are not mad and we do not fight and we talk through e-mail daily &#8212; we just aren&#8217;t very close. But I wish we were; I love him a lot.<\/p>\n<p>Why would that mess at the bottom of the cliff or balcony have been him? Why did I still only have the feeling of fear of being in trouble, fear that someone would find out I caused this? Instead of helping him, I let him lie face down while I went to call the paramedics. I am not crazy, but I am very disturbed by this. Why would I have such a violent and graphic dream? <\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"right\"><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: verdana,geneva;\">\u2014Teri, age 25, married, Arizona, USA<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">For the interpretation of the dream, click<\/span> <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/my-husbands-ex-2\/\" id=\"1088\" option=\"com_content\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\">here<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: red;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><span><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: red;\">Back to list of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/articles\/romance-dreams\/\" id=\"31\" option=\"com_content\"><span style=\"color: #800080;\">romance dreams<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":0,"template":"","categories":[3180,2954],"class_list":["post-36016","articles","type-articles","status-publish","hentry","category-ex-lovers-romance-dreams-question","category-romance-dreams-question"],"acf":{"article_id":"1011"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles\/36016","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/articles"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/articles"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36016"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/damwebserver.com\/dreamdoctor\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36016"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}